Just about everything in the deal is negotiable, EXCEPT these things:
- You don’t invite dudes you meet in the bars or on grindr/tinder/blendr/scruff/manhunt, etc. into our home unless I am advised, at home and awake. I find it beyond creepy to have total strangers walk into/through my home at 3am, or worse yet, hearing frightening reports from the neighbors that my front door was “left ajar.”
- We are only totally honest in this home. I can only deal with reality. People are human and most humans make mistakes from inexperience, lack of adequate or engaged judgment. But it is an inexcusable to not face reality by hiding, ignoring or distorting the facts. Honesty between each other is paramount. Once trust is broken, it’s gone and gone forever.
- I have zero tolerance for people who are hard substance users. I’ll have little sympathy, you need to fix your own issues here.
- As stated in About You, NO FRAGRANCES or scented soaps, shampoos.
- I’ll respect your stuff, you need to respect mine.
Back to the deal.